Y'all remember this cartoon we watched as kids, "Kung Fu panda"? The part where Po told Lord Shen that "scar heals" and Shen replied "Scars don't heal, wound heals". Po was like "scar fades" and Shen said he doesn't care what scars do, Po's reply was actually one of the best things I've ever heard , he said "you should let go of that pain from the past because it doesn't really matter, what really matters is you choose to be". I felt that.

We now live in a world where a lot of people blame their bad habits and characters on traumas from the past, zodiac signs, on what people has done to them, but what they refuse to do accept is that nobody decides who you are or how you behave towards other people. You choose to be who you are today, you behave like a goat because you choose to be a goat (not greatest of all time but goat as in goat). 

I'll love to remind you that how you behave towards people or handle situations will determine a lot in your life. One thing I've noticed is that nature reciprocate energy, you can't treat nature wrongly and get the best out of it, same thing apply to humans, you can't treat me like a piece of shit and expect me to treat you like the apple of my eyes.

Comrade!! Take responsibility for your bad behaviors and habits today and stop blaming it on that childhood trauma or zodiac. Looking back at everyone's life we all have one reason or the other to be toxic but we've choose not to allow it affect our lives. You should work on yourself and meet people that can help you. The first step to helping yourself is reaching out for help. Don't suffer in silence and allow people around you to suffer. 

Trust me, you're loved more than you could ever think of, being toxic or distant won't take the pain away, trust me, I've been there before. If you don't have anyone to reach out to, you can reach out to me either on Instagram @oluseun_olusanya_tzyion or Twitter @lusanya_oluseun.

Thank you for reading.